Ok seeing though some of you know whats going on and have helped alot ill tell the rest of you too.

2 weeks ago..maybe bit more now..some people from Craigs work went to Canberra to discuss plans on a buy out or merger with a highly sort out company. At the time i was unaware of the reasoning behind it....but as per usual was the last to find out when one Friday evening i was told ' (company name removed-craigs work) is going done in financial worries so X , Y and Z went to Canberra to talk with (company name) about what could be done, and 2 options came up. Sell (company) fully, leaving us all with no jobs but $300k each to start a new company or what ever we choose to do OR a partial merger, making us all move to Canberra, $80-$100k a year salary, plus a $100k each payout figure for merging.'.

Therefore... it was a do we go or do we stay. We choose the go option. However i have grown very found of Melbourne and all my great friends i have made and cant leave them. As you all know (and if not u will now) i moved form NSW in Oct last year here for Craigs work...i left family and friends behind...had to start fresh here. Was a huge move but a worthwhile one..til now.

I dont have a moving date as yet but i refuse to leave til M2 is born which is 21 Oct give or take. Craig and i discussed many options with the Vic to ACT move. The one we come up with and settled on now is, that he will lve in Canberra through the week, fly home Friday night and fly back Sunday night for work. Giving him Sat and Sun home with Chelsea and me. It sgoing to be hard..on all of us. Chels will miss daddy.. ill miss Craig...but i dont want to move so it has to be. Some might say why not pass up the job... but it would set us up for life... we dont see that kinda money flash before us that often..

No one likes the idea of me being here alone.. not even i do... but its the route im taking. Craig has said we will give it a go for 3 months, and if all is well in ACT ill move BUT only if im happy too... if not he will quit, move back here and find new work. I highly doubt ill be ready to move but i keep looking at the money side of things.
Anyhow he is off to Canberra tomorrow to sign the deal of the merger.

Thats about all thats going on....and i also have the fear he will miss bubs birth... and i have no one else to go with me if thats the case.