the standing in bed doesnt bother me so much - its this rolling over!!!
tonight when i put her to bed (she didnt want my help *sniffle*) she rolled onto her belly and stayed there asleep for a sec then rolled back onto her back and bumped into the side (the airwrap had slid down) and then settled on her side, at each point i'd give her a little pat and say 'good girl, it's okay'. so i'm hoping that she'll start to feel ok about rolling over and not freak out!