well after it working for two days it didnt this arvo!! but i will keep at it!!
what you do
1. put to bed, walk out, as soon as they stand up put them back down walk out, do this 15 times
2. after the 15th time, walk out for 15 mins
3. go back in and put back down, stay in the room and keep putting down until they fall asleep.

yesterday only has to do the first two steps and the start of the third and she went strasight to sleep
this morning and did the first step 3 times and she went to sleep, lunchtime first two steps then slept, but wouldnt have a bar of it this arvo!!!