DH has no illusions to what a SAHM does. He's been here heaps while I've been at work & somedays I come home & the house has exploded & DH is on the ground in his PJ's still with screaming children... othertimes I come home & he's done 2-3 loads of washing, the dishes & swept & done painting with the girls... so he understands how hard it is & how sometimes it doesn't get done. When he gets home from work he is straight into things because as he says "I just got to sit in an air conditioned train for 40 minutes, I'm all good"