Welcome home Nelly. I was thinking about you yesterday and wondering how you were feeling. I'm sorry that its wasn't the holiday you expected. Having kids changes lots of relationships... like I said to you in your text, your neice is going to get sick...and if your sister wraps her up in cotton wool its not good for her, the minute she gets to school she will be sick... its part of developing their immune system. Its not your fault that Jake got sick, and its not your fault that your neice did either. so throw that monkey off your back hun, you have enough to do this week without feeling guilty about things you have no control over!!! :hugs: