so how was the field Vicky? Did it give you a good chance for a think?

BTW, nothing you said offended me, honest! i'm not on medication cos no-one at that clinic asked me ANYTHING about how i felt, or about PND, to even get to first base about medication. I am not against it, it just never came up.

thanks for your kind words everyone, there is SO much more i could say, that would REALLY have you gasping (as in, OMG, how could that have happened in such a place?) but i won't bore you with even MORE stuff, i didn't spill the worst stuff cos i didn't want to depress you.

TaraLee?? you know your silence is making me think . . . . maybe today????
THinking of you and wishing you the best labour vibes possible hon!
I really hope it all goes well for you and your new little person, plus big sis and your dh. But mainly you, you're doing all the work!!