MIL issues, those of you with platium have probably read about some issues i have with inlaws and them not staying at our house when new baby comes, we dont have the room and i get stressed with FIL here, watches me feed etc... generally feel uncomfortable plus he is very diffecult at time, DH and i discussed them staying with BIL int eh fuure and he's fine with it, understands etc.... i told MIL last time she was here that i get anxiuos stressed etc...
fast forward to tonight she rings prying for info on my anxiety fishing for info if i have PND i tell her we wont be able tohave them here because of room etc..and beacuse i find it stressful, dont want them to come look after sophie while i have baby, want my mum to, they live 4 hrs away! she gets upset, i understand why but still...told them i dont want anyone to stay here the first few night s after i get hiome, want some family time, this leads onto her stopping short of accusing me of blocking them seeing us!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!! me hysterical... i would never do taht and thats not want im asking!
sounds silly and petty but upsets me greatly they have been my second parents, i love her like my mum