Blanche thats great that you are home

Jols I'm sorry, been away most of today & this is the second time I've checked this thread. I'm glad she understands, and I hope she is able to soften things with FIL. I didn't have the best relationship with my FIL. Often times I had to stay firm, for example, I refused to leave the room to breastfeed Matilda.... in my house, 4 days after she's been home from hospital after a c/s. He was horribly offended & didn't speak with me the entire visit... until we went to visit 11 months later. Apparently I was horribly disrespectful having the baby blues, and having to breastfeed.... obviously an offence against him. So you are not along in this mate.