Oh gee Christy.....thats not fun....i hope Jovie is better tonight!
V ill do anything right now to work out Chelsea and get her back to normal....i really am not coping with it at all, Craig is tougher then me so she knows theres no one to run too. Glad to hear the boy is better!
Sorry Kim I'm a bit caught up in things here, but I have to say... what Chelsea is doing, is exactly what Jovie is doing atm. The girls today had a hair pulling and screaming fight. *deep breath* its frustrating, annoying and had me screaming as well. Not nice.
Jovie will scream if she doesn't get her way, lay on the ground and kick. We have started putting her into time out or the naughty chair... whatever. She's catching on super quick with that. Matilda at this age was holding her breath and passing out and doing self harm.... so Jovie's heaps easier in comparison. Its definately a 2yr old phase as well. They aren't able to communicate as well as they think they can, so its frustrating. It gets on my nerves & I have to have breaks and take a walk without the screaming.... I am constantly asking for peace.
Vicky *hug* I hope everything is vomit free still.
Thanks for that Christy.....im a;ways being told my child is wild or ferel....im beginning to think ive raised her wrong.....ill plug along and know im doing things the right way and its just the age!
Man... IKWYM, my mum can't remember us ever having a tantrum. MIL says "oh well... .its all normal". Then she comments on every little move the girls make
Matilda's tantrums were labelled as extreme by GP's, paediatricians and social workers... so I felt better knowing that what she was doing was extreme, but at the same time everyone had to comment on how it was my fault in someway. Actually coming closer to a diagnosis of Asperger's gives me heaps of relief knowing there isn't much I could do for her anyway.
Jovie tantrums... I thought I was let off easy the second time around... but she does. She certainly knows what she wants & I think has learnt that if she has to have, she has to do something about it. Last night she finished dinner and left the table.... there was a lot of "Sit down Jovie" and a whole lotta "NO!" going on. DH started to get frustrated, but I said "nah, not our battle tonight" and let her go.
One of the best things a child psychologist said to me when Matilda was 2 was "Pick your battles". I kept saying "but but but" but he was right. He said your battle this week is "staying at the dinner table" and thats it. Unless its a safety issue, don't battle it. IF it is a safety issue say "you are going to the thinking chair because you didn't listen to mummy & its unsafe" and leave it there.... don't waste energy and time over those battles....
I forgot about that advice actually.... I think it will help with this move. Jovie's been a right turd, up again last night for a few hours. Matilda's been a gem in comparison!!! LOL... never thought I'd ever say that.
Ill right a list of battles!! Thanks for the advice....appreciate it.
Well im back from the hsopital, had my GD test, BumbleBee went crazy over the drink! Check up went good, measuring 32 weeks, BP was fine, Head down...only concern was odema and now im being watched closely. Go back in 2 weeks time.
good advice Christy - It helps to remind ourselves that sometimes we need to let them
"win".
i'm crap... ended up with aston's bug. and so did nathan and laura. they are on the improve, and I am still aching all over. hopefully tomorrow will bring sunshine and I will feel human again.
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