oh god had a serious bad mummy moment tonight ....

both kids irritable, DS has been whingey all afternoon, tonight DH is late & all this week or away overnighter for work ... after bath trying to dress DD everytime I put her down she cries, DS was going on and on and not listening or doing as I asked him so after asking him over and over again I lost my temper. Instead of putting one of us in time out to cool off I yelled so at the end of it all 3 of us were in tears. farkle farkle farkle then DS makes me feel even worse by giving me big hugs and "kissing you better mummy" so I cried again poor DH comes home to teary family *sigh*

banging my head against the wall can't seem to get DD to nap at all during the day. I miss her cues bcos I am busy with DS and so I then leave it too late she is currently only sleeping during the day if we go somewhere in the car and she drops off then. farkle farkle farkle

sorry had to vent xxx