Thanks Christy and Kim, I hope this is just a phase and it passes soon...i want my baby back. I was trying to explain how i feel to DH. it's like when DD is happy i'm happy and then remember that there's this "issue" with her crying at sleep times. it's so silly of me. I watched a show today about a 1yo who needed a liver transplant and her body was rejecting the liver and she needed a new one and the mother was so distraught and praying. i cried for her, and thought 'what the hell am i complaining about! ive got it so easy'...i guess its hard to remember that at the time