Dragonbub- Huge hugs to you and your DH. Your DH will come around i promise. With DD1 my DH was very much the same then one day when she was about 4 months old he came home from work in the best mood picked her up and said to me "omg i just realised how much i love her" he said he never doubted that he did love her but it was such a huge adjustment period and things are always tough in the beginning. For him it was overwhelming in the beginning and in his eyes all she did was sleep, ***** and cry (ok well that is true but ykwim). He is very similar with Molly and i have had comments from family that he doesnt seem to 'like' her which is sad but i know in time he will be just as smitten as he is with DD1. If things continue and you are both still struggling maybe in the new year some family couselling would help. I hope that tomorrow you both enjoy your day. Maybe we can catch up sooner than later too if you like.