Olive'smummy - i can't help u with the mini pill question! but i know what u mean about feeling better not being on the pill! i too lost weight when i came off it!
i have never used a diaphram either - but don't u get them fitted at ur GP? Or with ur gyne or OB?
No idea if it was lochia or not but i got the m/after pill anyway just too play it safe!

Hollye - i did end up getting the pill - took me awhile to actually be game enough to take it! wanted to make sure it was the right thing -

I hope no-one thinks badly of me cause of all this! its my own silly fault i know, but in the heat of the moment.......... and as much as i miss being pregnant and i have my regrets about the pregnancy and labour and every day i wish i could re-do it, im not ready for another baby - we have too much going on next year and i want to spend a bit more time with just Bianca!
i can certainly say i have learnt my lesson tho!