hj, I have read that you can ovulate 2 weeks after having a baby so to play it safe I would get the m/a pill. Are you sure it wasn't just lochia still coming out? But still I wouldn't risk it. If you have read my thread 'scared' in the relationships section you will know that dtd is freaking me out enough without worrying about getting pregnant again. Oh I was going to ask about contraception actually. I have been off the pill for a couple of years and lost heaps of weight and generally felt heaps better as I had been on it for 7yrs. I'm reluctant to go back on it but was wondering if the mini pill has the same side effects as the full pill? I was also wondering if anyone out there has used a diaphram? where do you get them?