thread: Babies Born October 16th ~ 31st 2009

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    done..

    he has actually said he isn't bonding the same he said it while i was pg as well

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    done..

    he has actually said he isn't bonding the same he said it while i was pg as well
    Do you think that might change as Luke gets older? As he'll be able to play and talk etc

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    damn well better i sometimes think he finds it hard as we decided last december jack was it then bam luke was a very big sursprise also it was a very easy pg no dramas no scariness.. he has said jack always will be extremely special due to nearly losing him during pg and then again at birth...

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    damn well better i sometimes think he finds it hard as we decided last december jack was it then bam luke was a very big sursprise also it was a very easy pg no dramas no scariness.. he has said jack always will be extremely special due to nearly losing him during pg and then again at birth...
    After losing your little girl then having trouble with Jack he will always be speacial to you But Dh really does need to bond with Luke, you dont want him feeling it as he get solder kwim?
    Maybe leave Luke with Dh for a few hours while you and Jack go do something. Swimming always bonds father and child?

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    Jase doesn't swim and our local public pool is closed for repairs till god knows when, I have tried that but ... oh I dont know this is the first time I have said anything outloud as such.. its disappointing foe both of us, I did notice he has tried a bit more the last few days, so hopefully this is the start

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    Jase doesn't swim and our local public pool is closed for repairs till god knows when, I have tried that but ... oh I dont know this is the first time I have said anything outloud as such.. its disappointing foe both of us, I did notice he has tried a bit more the last few days, so hopefully this is the start
    Well I never said it out loud, except to Clint
    But he has change completely. He said he just had to get to know her. Now they are starting to get their own little personalities it'll help
    Just time the 2 of them will help I promise. It helped Clint. It wasn't alot of time as Im bfing haha

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    Firstly - we love you Stevie so please stay strong! I know we barely know you, but we can all tell how much you love A and how courageous you are for wanting to work everything out with DH. Huge hugs and kisses to you and A.

    OMG all the discussion re injections is slot to think about... E is due for his in a week and I had not questioned getting them, but now I am really considering....Esp the rota virus.

    Afm, we went to paeds dr on Monday for 6 week check. Bub is now 5.42kg and 58cm. Dr said this was good for length and he has a really good shape (whatever that means!). All good and he also suggested I give solids at 4mths not 6 and introduce new foods each day if I wish.... All sounds good to me.

    One day I will have to put a photo on my ticker... Just need to work out how.....

    XoXo.