PP - lots of things you have posted about DD I have said - yeah like my DD at that age - so guess what - aorund 18 months my DD's sleep was shocking - after a few weeks I just absolutely caved and let her fall asleep on her little couch in the loungeroom with us - time poor, hubby travelling, Riley still had to get his sleep - and so did I - it was much quicker than the 2 - 3 hours of getting her into her bed. She would cry/scream until she vomited - all well and good for Tweedle/MCHN/Tresillian to tell me to just clean it up quietly without too much attention and start again - pi$$ off - I want a life too. Anyway its not a solution, was interim plan - but having said that it has only been since Christmas we have demanded she go to her own bed cos she is starting big preschool this year hehehehe, and it was easy - she goes every night no arguments etc - and now I wonder why we worried so much about her falling asleep inthe loungeroom - its a social thing - everyone is first to tell you what not to do - but they aren't there trying to deal with it!

Anyway, probably nothing in there to help you cos it sounds like you are doing all the right things and it is just her. Do whatever you and DH are comfortable with.

My DD started preschool this morning, gotta pick her up soon - only 3 hrs today - she was fine!!! Zander was up alot last night and had two feeds - i thik first one cos lazy DH wouldnt settle him and he smelt me and just wanted comfort - but he is off today too with a lot of crying - sounds snotty but not runny nose - and it is COLD here today too - who knows hey - red cheeks but doubt he is teething - just try and get through the day BUT I have to pick G up at 12 - then R at 3pmish, then G has calisthenics at 4.15 - 5.45 which R has to come to - thank good ness spag bol already in the slow cooker and washing on the line

Gotta go!