First up Bethany sends thank yous for the sympathy. She has perked up so I think she is over the worse of the infection poor little mite. She'll still need to be checked out to make sure there isn't anything inside thats wrong and her vaginal opening will need to be enlargened. Hopefully just through cream and not surgery.
The great meeting of the minds came up with.....well swat really!! The final word is a combination of behaviour that she has learnt from being uncomfortable with reflux maybe. Basically the theory goes that because she lies and plays on her tummy (She never did master front to back rolling) that makes her feel crappy after a feed at about the 20min mark. Instead of crying or something sensilbe to attract mine or her daddy's attention and say "hey this isn't working for me" she lets loose with the amazing sound barrier braking screams. And keeps going and going and going and going....You get the picture. I am addressing the refulx with slower feeding and keeping her upright after bottles (not ready to try meds yet, I would rather have that as a last resort.) we also have started heating her formula and using soy which made the world of difference. But alas the screams are still with us this is where the learned behaviour comes in. Next week sometime hopefully a baby behaviour expert person and a psychologist is coming to watch and assess what is going down and then give us stratagies to deal with it. Ohhhh bring on the dealing with it stratagies!!
Atleast we have gotten the sleep back under control that is a good start.
On a different note have any other bubbas had nightmares? Bethany had one last night. I had put her down and was in the lounge, she had been down for a good hour or more when suddenly she started screaming and it was a real terror hurry mummy scream. When I got in there she was asleep but still screaming. I carefully picked her up and just whispered to her and a few seconds later she woke with a jolt and started crying. Poor thing. It tooks lots of cuddles and a song or too to re settle after that (which I can more than understand!) She did settle though really well and was fine.
Well I have the real estate coming in an hour for an inspection and nothing is done cause Bethany has decided that it is carry me all day mummy day. So since the place is neat and tidy and realaivly clean I figure stuff it. Too tired to deal with it. I had in fact forgotten till this morning when I looked at the calander!
I think I can hear a cup oh Chai tea calling my name whislt Bethany naps....
Befie and Tanya~ Thats alwful bout the head droping, Hope X and Maya are doing ok now.
Hi Fluff!!
Hi Sami!!
mmmm Hi to whoever I missed!!
I hope you are over your tonsillitis quickly.
And there's no more coming up on ebay. BUT on the weekend I was at the baby shop with my DH and he wanted to try it out and then got Maya's fingers jammed in the tray and oh did she scream. 
So if things arent done by lunchtime, it all falls to crap in the late afternoons 
I believe you when you say it though. I've been using the S26 and haven't really thought about it cos just assumed that all the formulas were the same thing pretty much. TBH it doesn't bother me what it's based on though. Or is there something I'm missing?
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