Belfie, I am glad you got lots of info out of the visit. I like what you wrote about settling and that, our baby care nurse took us through it earlier in the week and although it is tough I can see the pay off but this has given me a few more ideas to try to make it work for us. thanks for sharing the wisdom!!
I am sure you ladies will here more about the no more children thing...we have to tell DH's family on the weekend... My MIL hasn't come to visit once since we came home from hospital and we live less than 5 mins away. She complains all the time that when we go to see her that Bethany is always asleep and so on, She is just really unsupportive and can be hurtful when she thinks she is funny. Oh well.