Kuraiza - sorry to hear you are having such a rough time with Jude. I was going to ask if you had joined a mothers group but just read that you did but haven't had luck making it there. I highly recommend going, maybe join the next one? I had so many issues when I first became a mother and the support and friendship I received from the women I met in mothers group was invaluable. I wasn't the only one sleep deprived, not knowing if I was doing the right things with my baby, not the only one with slight bladder leakage when I sneezed, not the only one not sure if my baby was feeding enough, sleeping enough etc etc... what knowledge I gained from all those mothers and my sanity was restored to a certain degree. Being a parent is a tough job and its mostly guesswork.

Hollye - I hope your photos turn out beautifully regardless of crabby Mia.

Itsme (Tanya) - Woo hoo to you going to the pub with Maya! I went to a plant nursery today and met up with other mums. There is a fenced in playground and a cafe with nice coffe & cake so adults can talk and kids can play, it was great!

Sorry, no time for more personals, girls need to go to bed etc.

bye for now,

Cathy