Hugs to you Kate. I agree with what everyone else has said. You're a better mum than those other parents because you are coping with a lot more and because you wouldn't be judgemental of others in that situation. Same to you Christy - hugs for you too.

I have a hair appt soon - it's my big night out tonight!! Tom slept for 7 hours straight last night - woo hoo!! That's his longest sleep so far. He woke again at 4 but only had a really small feed so I think he'll drop that one soon. Then he woke at 7 - just as I was about to wake him up as we had to drive DH to work this morning and he had to be there by 8. Pity the one night Tom slept until 2am, DH was getting phone calls until 1:30 due to a big problem at work and we both kept getting woken up!

Glad things are better at your end Kathryn, I hope the bfing improves for you Marion but well done for persisting. You are doing a great job. Hi to Kirsty, Emma, Ally, Tegan and anyone else.