Kate,

A lady at my mothers group told me that she saw a natropath about her daughters reflux and was told to give her weak camomile tea. I did it on the weekend when Gemma was screaming in pain and it seemed to work straight away. I know when I was pregnant and had heart burn it helped so it must be the same for the reflux. Just an idea for you.

Tegan if we lived closer I would offer to look after them for an evening. I know what you mean, I don't have anyone to look after my daughters either. I feel the same about leaving them with strangers. Although I have a friend who has the 9mth old I looked after and she has offered to mind them, so we might take her up on it. Have you got any friends who can do it even if you see an early session movie like 4.30pm and eat straight after you could have them picked up by about 8.30-9pm. THat's not too late and its time for you and your partner to be together and feel humane? Just a suggestion.