Welcome Kathryn. I am in the same boat as you. Thomas is due this Thursday but decided he wanted to be a Sep bub and hurried into the world 3.5 weeks early. I can't believe I'm still not due and he is 3 weeks old today. Luckily he didn't go through the sleepy stage and is feeding well and gaining lots of weight (although 8 hours sleep sounds appealing!!). I hope Ashton does not need to go back into hosp. That would be awful for you.

I have discovered that the hardest thing about having 2 under 2 is going out. It's fine if Jack (20months) is in the pram, but the other day I took Mum to the airport to fly home. I didn't use the pram as it's a pain to go through security with it. Once Mum left, Thomas wanted a feed so I had to try and watch and chase Jack while feeding Tom. Then on the way back to the car I had Thomas in the sling and Jack got tired and wanted to be carried. Not so easy to do!! Luckily he made it to the car, although a nice grandfather offered to carry him for me! I think there are going to be lots of those "moments" but so far I wouldn't swap it for anything.