Rebecca - you really have it tough, you poor thing. Don't be sorry for writing how you feel. We are here for you even if it is only at the computer. Is it possible that your mum or MIL can come out for a week or so to help you out?
Trish - how did Joel go at kindy? I am sure he is having the best time and you won't be able to keep him away. It will be nice for you and K to have some 1 on 1 time.
Willow - sorry to hear of another carp night. Don't have any suggestions to offer, so just know that I am thinking of you.
Becky - I am due to go back to work at the start May. In all I took 7 months Mat Leave. DH will be taking at least 3 months off on Long Service Leave once I go back so looks like we won't be needing day care so soon. Ideally I would like to have another 6 months off, but the realities are that I can't. At least with DH taking leave L will be a little older before he goes into care.

Went to visit one of the centres today. Looked alright, but I don't know, wasn't overly wrapped with it. All the staff looked so young, too young to have kids let alone care for them.

Going to look at the professional photos taken of L this afternoon. Can feel the credit card will take a battering. Going to the movies tonight.