Kaz - With the tonsils....as a kid who suffered from constant tonsilitis I say get to the ENT and see what can be done. Tonsilitis is the absolute pitts and I can bet that if Tay had them removed she would be a totally different kid. One of my mothers group friends had her little boys taken out and he's been so much better ever since...in more ways than one.

Oh and the BIG V....My Dad had it done YEARS ago, and I think it was a day procedure. I dont' even recall him having time off work because of it (but he is a workaholic). I'll be pushing DH into getting it done, but not 100% sure where future baby making is at at the moment! I figure it's their turn after we have had the pill, made and raised babies for years and years!