Kristie - Louis and Benjamin are so alike at the moment it isn't funny. We are getting the same thing here, tantrums that make you feel like you've done something wrong as a parent, head butting of walls, and I mean Benjamin doing it for attention and throwing things and hitting too are just something I'm trying to stamp out atm. He's also learnt that since he's got taller that he can reach things that he most certainly shouldn't have...knives off the bench, which I've told dh not to leave there for fear this very thing would happen. I was so scared the other week when the dear boy, brought out his uncle's razor from the bathroom when we went over there...He had cut the tip of his fingers as he was running the blade across them. I nearly flipped on that one!

Oh well, he's learning the hard way...

Melissa