i will be away,i hope you all get to have a great catch up.thankyou for your kind words.harry had his immunisation yesterday and did well,actually i gave it to him,LOL that is only the second child immunisation i have done.he was rewarded with a chup a chub.i took a personal day off work today.i actually had a lovely day.i had my hair cut and coloured and then went shopping all by myself.I really needed it and feel alot better today,i really do hope this week away will help me and grant rekindle our lost love cos it is at crisis point,not his fault.4 kids and no family to ever offer help or time out for us has taken its toll on our relaitionship.i beleive that you need to refual the fire to keep it alive and unfortunantly our fire died long ago.it has proven to be an impossible task to even find any kindling to try and even get a spark happening.maybe the cold snow will help me to WANT to light a fire.
nikki
Guys, I'm happy to travel wherever.. And I will offer to meet at my house too..But if u guys don't wanna travel, that's cool.
Nikki, I really hope this time away gives u and Grant some time together and being away from everyday life helps spark some fire for u.. And so glad to hear u had a great day today. Have a great time in the snow..
Tracey, isn't it so lovely when they end up sleeping together for a bit... I so love that time of the day!
Well I am freezing so I am off to bed..Nick is watching the Tour de France(he loves it!) so prob won't get to sleep for a while yet!!! Might have to bribe him with sex to turn the tv off!!!hehehe
aw Nikki
Ive been trying to think of the right thing to say for the last couple of days, but I dont know what it is. I kinda have some idea of what you mean though, unfortuntely for me.
I'm gald you are taking some time out for you (today) and your family on your trip away. I hope things work out the way you want them to.
Actually, I will most likely be home on Friday.
I'm getting a painter in Thursday and Friday next week and am planning to be home one of those days, with DH being here the other, so hopefully its friday.
I cant travel very far though, at least not in the a.m., it will depend what time the painter is done (its a friends DH), and what time the RE come parading through the house.
I've spent the last 90 minutes scraping pain from the roof. She sms'd me and said "the more you strip, the cheaper it gets!" LOL
I'm putting up some photos of the house progress int he gallery so I will link to them as they go up.
All well here with the kids...my uncle is expected to pass away over the weekend...had to be taken to hospital last night after having a funny turn thing...so so sad...I worry how it will affect my dad as he's his last close relative...he has another brother and half brother but one lives in qld and has cancer also and the other is up in corryong and is not all that healthy either after spending his life as an alcoholic...
Anyway...
Nikki - Wow at giving Harry his immunisations! Glad he coped well! Good for you having a day for yourself!!! I really hope your time away goes well and you can get some things sorted out...big hugs!
Do you think we should put off our catch up until the following week when Nikki's available??? It would be really good if we could all try and catch up...just a thought - otherwise I'm more than happy to head over the other side so Rachael can come!
Rachael - yeah at getting painters! I hope everythings ok with you and your dh as well...it's such a hard time these baby years...it's so easy to get caught up in life and not have time to focus on each other...
Gosh...your so good doing all this work on your house...I so not a handyperson...I'm absolutely useless with my hands...
Well, I don't know - I'm not good at decisions either...someone just tell me where to be and what time! LOL!
Spanner in the works - looks like i cant catch up friday - we are having our final inspection of the house before settlement on wedneday and then settlement will be friday but the solicitors are telling me to make sure i am free so i can come grab the keys friday once the money has all been exchanged etc as the RE agent is going on holidays and my solicitor would rather we dealt with it all with the person who sold us the place etc which is fair enough but a pain coz a cant catch up with you girls!
Sorry! And then the next week we are moving and past that i cant think!!
Nikki- i hope you surprise yourself and have a great time on the skii trip! Dont put pressure on yourself to rekindle something though - just try to go with the flow...... Will be thinking of you!
OK, better go get the girls dressed and me showered so we can actually leave the house and go do some food shopping before my mum gets here for tea! I am very slack today!
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