aawww Kell, sending you a big hug. My df is lacking in the shared parenting department too and as much as I hate to say this, I sometimes I miss my XH who was a bloody gem with the kids even though he worked long hours.

Kerry - OMG, your post made me cry so much about Mathew's daddy not seeing him yet. One of my boys had cradle cap really bad too and there wasn't much I could do about it besides oil it and pick it *slaps the hand*

iserveanawsomeGod - Oh man, I have given up on the meds and gone ala'natural. I found this stuff called Marina the other day while I was getting some drops for her constipation ( another thread on this *sighs* ) and it said that it appeared on a show with Ray Martin. So I googled it and it has rave reviews. So now Ihave my placid little girl back but she is bunged up from either the formula that Igive her once a day or the Losec.

captain - yeah I am pretty lucky that A sleeps at night. At least I can handle her afternoon mad hour cause I am rested otherwise Id lose it, I don't deal with sleep deprivation too well. LOL

Oh man, DS has a fancy dress party to go to and all the friggin costume places I have called can't help me.
Gotta run and find me a solution, I don't feel like making anything myself.