You turned out pretty ok too hun.
Funny that was the image I had in my head when I posted that your DD was being worded up. Seems to be the type to try to drag kids away from good homes to get a bit extra $$ and of course your DD will think she is wonderful
As hard as it will be for you, just sit and wait sooner or later she'll realise these people don't care about her and she'll miss her mum

Hugs
NN x x x x x