It looks like J has dropped his day sleep too! and I spoke too soon about J not being able to open our doors, as today when I told him it was sleep time, he started howling, then the next thing I know he was out here in the family room!

It is also being terrible with eating. Tomight he had about 4 mouthfuls of spag meat, before he came across a lump of celery and flat out refused to eat any more. So that's it. dinner over. No other option for him. I am taking the hard line now. Honestly he has been such a little $hit today I am ready to give him away, let alone how we will go getting him to bed tonight.
he normally goes to bed at 8 if he has a sleep in the day. No day sleep and he goes at 7, but last night was still crying at 8, as he wanted to get back up.

I feel really mean about dinner. I feel like I am letting him starve. I am not good at leaving him hungry.

Nelle - As I think Shell said, it you want him to see a spath, it is prob best to get the ball rolling now as there is often lengthy waits till you can get in to see someone.