Helen - you have done the right thing. I was in a MBU with James when he was a baby, and honestly it is the best thing for you. The support is wonderful, and I am sure they wil lget you back on track.

In fact I am thinking I might need to go back to the MBU the way I am at the moment. Except the PND is not about E, but about J. I guess it is because of the PND I had with him last time.

Oh - and J failed his hearing test this weel. So we have to go back in 8 weeks time. Accounts for his unclear language. He has fluid on both ears, and passed 2 out of the 3 components of the test.

Ash sounds the same as J. Won't eat properly, hitting others, screaming at me, and being really rude to strangers when at the shop (like screaming at the checkout chick - poor lady!!)

Nelle - can you palm the boys off for a hour or so to do the packing?