ambz-I've cheated this year, most of my chrissy presents are vouchers. Not that they are bad but usually i like to try and find a gift that will suit everyone but sooo can't be bothered this year wandering around trying to find something. Vouchers are also good for last min shopping.

little*princess- sound like my IL's they also mean well but can only take them in small doses.

Rach75- Maybe stick with your group little longer it may get better, maybe ask a few if they want to meet up outside that group where that BFing chick isn't invited.

A girl in my mothers group was telling me today how when she had her DD she weighed just under 3kg and the midwife decided she had to have formula because of this and gave it to the baby without telling the mother and getting her consent! Can you believe that? She only found out later on that this was happening and was furious cause she had plenty of milk pouring out this nurse just had decided ahe had to have formula cause she was small!