Kell, I think Jesse is a fab name! We would use it for a boy but we have tons of friends with the nn's/fn's Jess/Jesse sooooo it would get to confusing. As for the pill thing, well my OB recommended coming off it and charting your cycle for 2 months prior to TTC just so you know what the go is with cycle length, ovulation etc BUT I have heard of plenty of ladies getting pregnant the first cycle off the pill so do whatever makes you happy!