Well, I'm planning in a card and a cake for Riv's first birthday. Maybe balloons. He likes balloons. Since I'm planning 3 or 4 kiddos, I want it to be fair, and I can't imagine having a big hoo ha for #4! I don't think a 1yo will care anyway, though it would be a grouse excuse to have friends over. Probably the first big party will be 5yrs?

Ooer, Rans is pulling in the driveway and I'm still in my jim jams...I'm in trouuuuble.