ok need help have been invited to a bridal shower dinner thing, not sure if I will go as I will need to take Jack as Jase is at bucks party all day starts at 7am in the morning so I dont imagine he will be fit to care for Jack, and I wouldn't be comfortable unless he didn't drink at bucks party as if that woud happen anyway...............has anyone ever heard of a pantry filler party I have no idea what the girl who rang meant, first I thought she said pear tree she was on mobile so was hard to understand her...........anywho if anyone knows what this means in relation to a bridal shower thingo can they let me know, I doubt I will go but still be nice tobe prepared