the sleeping story - or lack of - has only two 20 minute cat naps during the day and then wakes up about 5 times per night - I have taken to bringing her into bed with us just so I don't have to keep getting up - I also tend to bf her as she won't settle back to sleep herself - I am waiting for the night when she will sleep through....people are also putting pressure on me to use control crying (DH & my mum) but I don't want to do this...