Shell - I dont know he says its because girls are hormonal and cause more stress to their parents than boys do - with boyfriends etc. I think he just doesnt like the idea of in the future someone having sex with his daughter That said I think he would be stoked either way, but thats why we'll be finding out at 20wks so he has 20 more to get used to it! I keep reminding him that girl's are Daddy's Girl's and if he wants her to turn out right he needs to put effort into their relationship!

I hope its a girl as this will be our last baby but if it isnt thats ok, I love my boy so 1 more wouldnt be tragic

Maz - we already have two names picked out if its a girl - Carys or Georgiana