meg - when he's upset and wants comfort feeds, is it hunger, or teeth, tired or just sooky? If he's just sooky, then do what shell suggested, try taking him outside for a walk or something. With not taking a bottle, also do as shell suggested and try a sippy cup, a lot of babies tend to take to sippy cups rather than bottles (but some are the other way round). I use the Pigeon Mag Mag sippy cup for Nina. She used to be a booby girl, loved it! But as soon as I introduced the sippy cup, she never went back to boobie
If it's teeth, does he like to suck on a teething ring, or a wet rag maybe?