Happy birthday to our birthday babies!

Well Ry came home on Saturday night at midnight and told me they gave him 24hrs to 'sort us out'. I was so flippin mad I could have killed anyone in a khaki uniform Ry rang his boss the next day and said that he would need more time that that as we were both pretty sick with throat infections and I was still having my 'baby issues' so he has to go back tomorrow morning unless my Dr orders bedrest. Only thing is my OB has gone away til next week and theyre not sure they can fit me in to see one of the others. The receptionist was really nice about it and said she'd speak to the on call Dr about seeing him as I still have bits falling out, trouble pooping and sporadic contractions. Ry cant have anymore time off without using up his parental leave and he'll need a Drs letter on my behalf, apparently we could be lying about this whole thing

Bad news is we're going to have to seriously think about my moving back to Sydney if the OB decides this situation is serious as atleast then I'll have my Dad, sister and numerous friends who can give me a hand regularly without jepordising their jobs. I'll also have Drs I can see without having to ring weeks in advance and decent hospitals to go to if I have any problems. Ry is not happy about it but says its ultimately my decision. My Dad offered his frequent flier points for Ry to come and see us in Sydney whenever he can, atleast there is only the rest of this month, Oct, Nov and 2 weeks of december left before his chrissy holidays and then after he goes back to work on Jan 20th we'll have easter and then he comes to Sydney. Not a loooooong time to spend apart.

I really really hate this whole situation. Im getting annoyed with being pregnant because its brought about difficult decisions I didnt think Id have to make, I feel so guilty for wishing this kid out as soon as he can get out I just want him healthy and safe on the outside with my bits intact. Long way to go yet.

Jetts a slight bit better, he's been sleeping alot more than usual and his cough is a bit worse but nothing we can do except wait it out. Im not too much sicker so hopefully I wont get as bad as him.