Big :hugs: for you Anna, Caddie & Nessa for having rough nights.

That's such a shame DH had to go and check the alarm so often last night. I hope you all get some rest today Nessa.

I hope you have a better night tonight Caddie. Hopefully she'll have a sleep today as she didn't get much last night. It's hard when they can't tell you what's wrong, isn't it.

Annat - When Jett wakes during the night, is he just crying, or is he ready to play? If he's crying then it could be teeth (yet again!). I'll be putting Nina in a big bed very soon, so maybe just go with that idea. Like you said, there'll be sleepless nights anyway at the beginning. I think it's best to have him in a big bed well before #2 arrives, unless you want them both in a cot. A friends' DS took about 3 months to settle when they moved him into a big bed, but they made a bad choice by removing the dummy at the same time as moving him into a bed. Not a wise move. Do one thing at a time with that.
Have you tried different pain relief to see if it is the teeth, or pain related?
I know it's awful looking at a messy house, but if you're exhausted, it's best to leave for another day.
Is Ry still home, or has he gone back to work?