Rachel.. i did "bother" to read your post properly. The reason i said you knew nothing about whats going on with Nessa and for you to say that is not fair, is because the reason you said what you did was because of Nessa's need to delete her posts. I know directly it may not have be aimed at just her, alot of us have had problems, its just sometimes you just dont know what is behind it and sometimes it is something really serious.. so sometimes a little understanding and support, as commonly friends do, is always appreciated.