well I just left her too it, then got her lunch ready but couldn't work out her to use her booster seat so popped her in Jacks high chair OMG this child can eat I am sure she ate more than Jack does in 1 day anyway JAck then wanted lunch so I had to work out her chair so popped Jack in that and they both had lunch, they were munching on sanga so thought I would do quick vac of lounge & play area she had a bit of a hissy then so moved her around so she could see me kept vac turned around and they are sharing sangas thank god both were havingn vegimite, jacks was on 9 grain though so must remember to warn the mum about what her poops will look like LOL, anyway she finished cleaned her up changed her bum (I dont know how you girls with girl do it but baby girl poo's are gross LOL) popped her in port-a-cot closed the door fixed jack up on futon with bottle, she has been talking but no distressed sounds so have left her to it I think she may be out for the count as haven't heard anything for 5 min or so, gosh I wish jack would go in cot wide awake and then go to sleep

anyway I will tell her mum etc I was at point where I nealry rang ehr and said I dont know what to do