Ambz, I just want to say hang in there! Im in the same boat with 2 so close together and it was an absolute nightmare for the first 10wks or so, and I even gave up breastfeeding. Now that Rips is 3mths old life is so much better- he's more settled, he's sleeping from 11pm-6am which makes me feel a whole lot saner and he's easier to fit in with our routine. Feels like those first hellish weeks were all a dream. Dont be afraid to ask for help either - I thought I was getting PND for awhile there but with some support from my friend and a chat with my GP & MCHN I realised I was just exhausted and feeling unsupported. Get checked out though just in case you need some more indepth help. Big hugs lovey

Caddie you deserve a hug too having the cha cha's or chuckies sucks, esp when you have kids to take care of and your hubby wont help you out.

Kell, how is Nessa doing?