Rach - we tend to do about 6-7 feeds a day. Although it can sometimes increase (ie tonight she ended up having 3 feeds in 2 hours to try and get her to sleep). Sounds like you are really having some tough nights - DD has spent the last 5-6 weeks waking more than she used to, must be something about that birthday! That was so good of your DH to give you a night off!

OK, I'm definitely going to bed now.