hi ladies

hayley- sounds like a successful shopping day to me. sprout have some really good stuff don't they?

ange- i hate when people turn up at my house unannounced. makes me so mad. i'm surprised you didn't tell her where to go!

arte- well, i basically just stopped offering him the boob, particularly in the middle of the night, but he sort of just stopped it by himself too iykwim? i'll sometimes still bfeed him to sleep for his morning sleep, just cos it's quick and easy, but he doesn't aways want it now and definitely doesn't 'need' it like he used to. nowadays he likes a bit of a spoon, a cuddle or a back rub and he drifts straight off. in the middle of the night he usually just needs a big cuddle, it's much easier.
i think the main thing was that i stopped stressing and obsessing over it, and it just kind of happened by itself iykwim?