Sounds like karma is biting her in the ass bigtime! Couldn't happen to a nicer person either Don't you dare spare a minute more worrying about her feelings when she finds out all your news second hand or after everyone else. She hasn't earned the right to be in the inner circle with you. Recovery isn't too bad now - I can bend over now at least, but it catches up with me at night though and I'm all achey. My gyno should call me tonight actually to let me know what he found etc.