Babies Born September 2007 #43

G, they are in the supermarket in the aisle where all the muesli bars and rollups and everything like that are - at least they are in our supermarket.

I don't give A dried fruit as it always has sulphites in them - even ones from the healthfood shops and they aren't any good for anyone. The recommended amount of dried fruit for a child is 1 apricot half (this was according to someone who advocates preservative free foods etc, it was years ago I heard about this) plus they are a known allergen for some people and is a trigger for eczema, so I steer clear. I tend to give him fruit, or the trident/fantastic brand rice crackers and those fruit finger things - there is a brand I buy that has no preservatives in them. he will have arrowroot biccies too occasionally. But fruit is his biggest fave for snacking. I have a little ice brick I use for when it's hot to keep it fresh.

Clare :hug: hun. Maybe she feels that the meds will help you along, it's not easy trying to overcome it on your own.

H, HOLY COW!!!! Are you sure it's only 6wks and not 6mths? ;) that's gone so fast! If you can hardly see the marks, then don't worry about getting it cleaned now cause as soon as you put in on for the big day - it's going to get dirty again no matter how hard you try to keep it off the ground etc. So not worth the cleaning fee to only have to do it afterwards anyway. But $300 is a rip off - I paid less than $50 to have mine professionally cleaned and $50 to have it properly boxed in tissue paper.

PP, great to hear everything is well with you and the baby. I bet you'll keep it to yourself again what flavour you're having wont you? ;)

Cally, don't worry about K and her Daddy, it's all circles and roundabouts hun - soon she will be mummy's girl again and Daddy wont even get a look in.

Re the pottys, I got one for Lindsay and had it about the place etc, but all he would do was wear it on his head as a hat and refuse point blank to use it. He was nearly 3 before he was TT (in the January before he turned 3 in the feb) and he was completely trained day and night in 3 wks. The girls were day TT by 2, but night TT a bit later - I think it was only about 3mths and they were night TT too. I plan to start Alister this September if he's ready.

Trill I have found sulphite free dried fruit at my local health food shop - I am a stickler for that too. you are right though it is hard to find...
yep i will be keeping it quiet what i am having - you can all guess away!!!
i am having fun now trying to come up with names. DH wont play ball and only wants to choose when we know gender. what's the fun in that???

Huh!? What is a sulphite? Whoops lol.

Trillian - YES 6 weeks ahhhh! $50 thats a bargain. I could not find a single drycleaner under $300, even after I said the dress is spotless apart from a couple of patches on the train. Seriously though you wouldnt notice it unless you bent down to look closely at it. I'm too scared to call the dressmaker lady now & tell her I aint drycleaning it lol!

Mind you H, that was nearly 9 years ago now LOL. tell her you will get it done once the alterations are done - she's hardly going to track you down and check ROFL (well at least I hope not, cause that's seriously crazy) Sulphites are preservatives used in drying fruit. They can also cause breathing problems in Asthmatics.

P, no fun at all in that LOL. Tell him he's playing the easy way ;)

I just read the boost packets and it says contains more then 10mg/kg of sulphites.

PP I am guessing a little girl. Your dh is no fun at all.

Rainy the boost thingos are in the healthfood bit at our Coles, havent seen them at Woolies but my Woolies is a small one.

OKy so just caught up on all the things happening in here - feeli like I am an intruder!! But I did want to ask a few questions seeing our bubs are the same age.

1. Who's kids are in a big bed/toddler bed? Or when do you plan to put them in one?
I kind of assumed that Mackenzie would be a least 2 before I considered this but not really sure.
2. When do you plan on TT? I read some threads that said around 2nd birthday and that sounds like a plan for me too but will def not push it unless she is ready.
3. How many words are they all saying? Mackenzie says the usual mum, dad, nan as well as do (dog), do (dorothy) and du (duck). Nothing else really unless you count the gibbberish! Does this sound normal to you guys?

Thanks for your answers!

Hi JordieC, My M is at the same sort of stage as your M with language, with the mum, dad, bub etc & not much else lol. I think its normal, at least I'm not worrying, she chatters away in her own little language all day long. I think as long as they are making sounds, babbling etc at this age they are doing fine. As for a big bed, no we are still in the cot. TT I have noooo idea about this one?

Clare:
Normally Alex walks away from the table & once Jack has finished his bowl he swaps seats & dig into Alex's.
Ooh, am jealous on the clean house. Wish I could get mine into order. Was talking to Tracey bout it, & I seem to think cause it was chaos when I walked in after it was unloaded from the truck, it's always felt like caos hence why I never seem to get in under control.
Well done on the dinner party after the dentist. I had two teeth ripped out (one surgical) in Qld in April & was supposed to drive home (to NSW) the next day! Rofl
I am wondering if refering you to see bout Meds is a precautionary measure.

MD:
Sounds like your trip to Ikea was fun. TBH, I've never been to an Ikea :o

Noni:
How'd you go with getting the vegiemite cleaned up?

Arte:
:hug: hope everything is okay on the diabeties front.
Just a thought on the milk front, have you offered flavoured milk instead of plain normal milk?

Trill:
Alister sounds like Alex with the food. Tho Jack grazes all day & then feasts at dinner.
I use a sports bag when it comes to going to the pool etc. Then I use it again for daycare. Love the thing, & its Thomas. One of the ends zip off to come as a backpack even :D

Rainy:
Awesome the bed has arrived & been assembled. Alex has been climbing into my bed the last 3 nites. I think I'll keep Jack in his cot for a while yet. Not sure I'm ready for two roaming the house in the wee hours! haha
PML big time .. I am sorry .. I'm just reading your post from yst & the poo on the carpet. I think its soo funny cos I have been there in the last 3mths with Alex! Thou the other day, I looked down at Alex & his bum was in the air & as I watched him, I could see this Poo slowly coming out of his bum! OMG, was lucky Jack has brought the potty into the lounge room a bit earlier.

Katie:
ROFL, yes, Jack loves to shove his soggy food into my mouth!

Cally:
:hug: don't you h8 times like that, when they want someone else instead of you.

Hayley:
Wat a morning you had! Wat are you going to do? You going to get it drycleaned?

JordieC:
Hi. My bubs is still in the cot as he is comfortable there & he know's its his bed. TT, if he doesn't do it in the nxt 2 mths, prob start next spring. Tho its hard to say with his older bro being 13mths older & he loves copying him. Words: has a big vocab, bout a dozen.


AFU:
Been an interesting few days.
I did a 3 card tarot spread on monday & my future card was the lovers card saying to have faith. Then on Tues I spoke to my ex briefly & he wants to come down & talk to me bout our future (but won't do it over the phone) & he basically told me to have some faith. He said he is going to try & come down in the next month. I'm trying not to think bout it cos I don't want to get excited just in case.
Took the boys to D/C on Tues & the mum tells me she is resigning & that she has arranged for the boys Mon mum to take them on a Fri (that was her only opening) & then when I pick them up, she's been talking to head office & the approved friday's & wld be willing to find me a 2nd mum for the boys 3rd day. Today I get a call from mon's mum offering to take the boys on a Thurs & confirming Fri's. So know she'll have the boys the 3 days the go.
Talking to the mum yst, she gave me the biggest compliment. She said the boys are two of the best behaved kids she has in her care & she is going to miss them. She never has a prob with them. OMG!!!!
Jack has been soo sweet as of late, giving mummy lots of hugs & kisses

off to start getting ready for the slumber position .. nite!!

Andie - No I'm definately not going to dryclean it at that price, especially seeing as I am getting married in a park lol. Wow thats a good sign, I hope it all works out the way you want it to with your ex.

Sorry girls but I need to get a MIL rant off my chest. After the big blow up between us a few weeks ago I thought we had finally made peace. I felt that maybe she was feeling a bit left out with the wedding planning & all so gave her the job of organising the wedding cake. While she was at it she found an ugly ugly flowergirl dress, took a pic on her mobile, & sent it to me asking if I liked it. I kindly wrote back to be honest no, besides M already has a dress. I knew she didnt like M's dress, when I showed it to her she screwed up her face. Anyway I ignored it. So now that I've said no to this ugly over the top marshmallow dress, she is ignoring me. I sent her an email a few days ago updating her on the wedding plans & Maddie etc, & she hasnt written back. She always writes back that day or the next as she is always online. I know another thing annoying her is the fact that I said we are taking M on our honeymoon, as we will be gone for 10 days. I am so over trying with this immature woman. I would love to have a MIL that I could get along with, instead I'm dealing with her petty little problems. Ahhh rant over lol sorry all.

ahhhhhh hayley!!! she is soooo immature....just reading your post i had flashbacks of my mil standing on my driveway yelling at me 'you took my son away from me!!!!" waaaaaa!!!!!! what the hell is wrong with these women!!! why is so controlling over you?? i can't believe her! why does she have a problem with you taking m on your honeymoon? what does your df think about it all? i really think he needs to get some balls and have a chat to her....

andie- i'm soooo excited about your ex coming to see you, i'm jumping out of my skin! i really hope it works out for you.

Rainy - LMAO did your MIL really do that!???! Thats madness. What a witch. No wonder you dont get along with her. Does any of her other son/s have wives/girlfriends & if so how is she with them? YES me DP needs to grow balls big time & speak to his mum. Trust me I've told him countless times. Another thing getting to me is I wish she would help me with this wedding. Maybe I'm just being selfish though I dont know. I know how much she wants to get involved but now she's being silly & ignoring me.

Andie - Would be nice for the boys to have their dad around. Good luck :)

Andie, I hope that even if things don't work out (but I really hope they do) that this is the start of you both being great parents to your boys and having a great working relationship for them kwim? Let us know how it goes though :hug:

H, I wonder if she was just testing you? Sounds like it was a pretty horrid dress, and maybe she didn't like it either, but by you rebuffing her suggestion, she can play the victim with everyone about it kwim? Like she's trying to stitch you up and make YOU the bad guy. Don't fall for it and don't let her petty crap bother you. :hug:

Hey Jordie! Don't feel like an intruder, cause you aren't! As for your questions, we'll do the big bed when he's about 2 - that's when we put our older three into beds (cause we needed the cot for the next baby ROFL) and it worked well. We are getting bunks for the boys though cause we're limited for space in their room. TT will be about two as you would have read, but if he's not ready I'll stop and wait a while. Talking, Alister has quite a few words and is starting to form sentences (two-three word ones), like 'see ya Dad'. His words are Mum, Dad, Ineee (Lindsay LOL, so cute!), no, yes, uh-oh, oh no, ha-ha (bloody Simpsons!), yeehaa, Nan, see ya, ta, ta-ta, poo, woof, bath. I asked Paige's speechie about this once and she said that they should have 50 words by 2yo, but not to worry if they don't (some will have more than this, some will have less), so long as they do communicate with you in other ways (babbling etc) and can follow simple instructions etc the words will come later. Meanwhile encourage them to talk by talking to them and asking them questions and naming things when they *ask* for them. It really helps if you don't use pet names for things too, but often they are pet names for a reason, but just keep reinforcing what the real name is kwim? Reading to them as much as you can really helps as well. If at any stage you have concerns about her speech, please dont' delay in getting a referral to a speechie and having her assessed.

hayley- yes she really did do that. she's not healthy though iykwim? there is something clearly wrong with her. my bil does have a gf, and she does get along with the mil, but she is very 'straight' and sweet and plays along with mil's games, whereas i don't take s**t off anyone. i think mil doesn't see her as a threat as they are quite similar personalities, whereas mil and i are complete opposites and i don't think she likes the fact that her son has sought out someone so different to her- it's like she takes offence to it and takes it personally, if that makes sense?
i actually agree with sherie that i think your mil is playing games with you and has set you up to look like the 'bad guy'. she sounds very manipulative and is used to being able to make other family members feel sorry for her- i know, because it's exactly what my mil does. she has my fil wrapped around her little finger and gets in his ear about everyone and everything.
i really wish your dp would wake up to her a bit. he really needs to show her that he's on your side, i feel like this is the only thing that would make her back off as she would see that her games aren't working.
if she doesn't want to help with the wedding, it's a shame, but it's her loss. sounds like she's more trouble than she's worth anyway..

Rainy, did the period-like pains stop? I had a dream about you last night, you were driving a train (a fisher-price animal train lol) and then you said 'I can feel the head' and crouched down and a baby dropped out of you! But he was about 6 months old looking around and waving with a head full of black hair (I think it might have been Noah).

MM, sorry your MIL is being a cow. I hope she behaves herself at the wedding! I used to get along so well with my ILs but after the last holidays I just can't be bothered with her. She is apparently the type to bring out the tears to manipulate people. Doesn't work on me though, being a bit of a cold-hearted biatch makes me immune lol

Jordie, Big beds: I would put W in one, but he doesn't sleep well enough at night and I can't be bothered getting up to him. As soon as he sleeps better he can shift, I am not worried about him falling out because he has been co-sleeping since 3 months and climbs out very well.
Toilet training: I was going to get a potty, but after reading a couple of the posts here I think he would be one inclined to wear it on his head. So I am thinking a step up to the big toilet, not sure when we will implement it.
Talking: W has about 30 words and a dozen or so animal noises. He can do a few little sentences like 'more cracker/biccie' or 'dada car'. But I don't think there is any need to worry yet, some of the other bubs the same age at mothers group are only saying a couple of words.

Andie, yip, tried flavoured milk. Doesn't work much better than normal milk. If I call it coffee he will have a couple of sips, but still not much.

MD, I know 20kg seems like a big ask (easy advice to hand out when you are as thin as a pin!) but I suspect the Dr might have known what she was talking about. I lost about 5kg while TTC and it has done diddley jack - fasting sugars still too high and the 3 month average is in the warning zone between normal and diabetic. However, I am getting my serenity back, for now it is something I cannot change so I will just deal with the pregnancy for now and sort out the rest when I am able.

PAP, so exciting that you are moving home! Can you get transfers for your jobs? Sounds like you have had a terrible run of bad health, hope it improves for you and the ulcer doesn't cause you any more trouble.

Cally, what a horrible morning! W was a whingy brat yesterday - he almost never has tanties but yesterday he had them all afternoon, then DH came home and he was a complete angel!

So, with words that they say, does it count as a word if it isn't pronounced properly? Like for pram W says Bram, does that still count? A few of his words are a bit babbleish so only DH and I can understand what he is saying.

Jordie - no, not an intruder, jump on in any time you want!! We're all just chatterboxes :lol:. We'd love to have you stay! Re your Q's - we won't look at big girl beds until after E's 2nd birthday - and even then we might wait because our cot is designed so the side comes right off. IMO better to keep them in a cot for a long as poss because it helps stop bedtime wandering/playing. You only need them to go into a big bed either when the cot is getting too small or if you have a climber (cos it's not safe for them to be clambering over the sides).

Re TT - we'll be waiting until next summer - no hurry, they all get there when they are ready.

Re words - E doesn't actually say Mum or Dad or Hannah - but we get duck dog drink quack meow hi yay and she also has a word that sounds nothing like 'what'sthat' but she says it consistently every time she points at something. She also says a word that sounds like 'pretty' - but uses it whenever she's interested in the detail of something (like a picture or lights or something that catches her eye). From my understanding it's most important at this age that they are understanding key label words that you are using (and I'm sure M is doing that if she's saying some words of her own). We try to repeat the main words several times whenever you we something, as that helps with learning.

PP - meant to say - glad they are looking at a specialist re the ulcer - do hope it stays under control. But if you keep getting pain up under/near your ribs do insist on an ultrasound (gallstones are often misdiagnosed as reflux, etc)!

Re the snacky things - must try the boost thingies. There's a similar fruit-flake thing my sis showed me at the supermarket - sultana-sized and roolly yummy BUT prolly still quite high in sugar. E likes cruskits, cheese sticks, freeze-dried apple, sultanas, vegemite cheesy sticks, but really she'll have a go at anything these days if she sees us eating it. I do a lot of muffins, crumpets, fruit loaf, scones etc when we're at home. She leant how to drink thru a straw in record time one day when we were having boost smoothies LOL.

Cally, your K is such a cheekie girl - learning to get her own way I think! Hope the lamington worked. :hug:

MM - far out I didn't realise it's so close!! I hope you explained to the dry cleaners that you only want it cleaned and not packed, a lot of them pack it into an archive box for that price. Triple the price as soon as you say the "W" word (rip off merchants)!

Ok, well I'm pooped, still haven't read half the posts, might BBL if I can. Seeing Dr Surgeon today so you'll all have to keep fingies and toesies crossed for me.

ETA - Arte - what a cracker of a dream! PMSL! Glad you're getting zen with the whole blood sugar thing. xxx RE words - I think if they use the word consistently and you understand what they are saying then it's a word. Full stop. Little kids often use invented words and as long as their family understands the word has done what it needed too, kwim? Teenagers mispronounce and use a lot of never-heard-before language and we don't bat an eyelid at that LOL.

hi everyone
MM I am shocked at your MIL and Rainy I never cease to be shocked at yours! Far out these women at nutters!
Jordie - good to see you. N is a chatterbox - prob has 30 words or so... but i was a v early talker (late walkjer, hence he still doesnt walk). My good friend is a speech pathologist though and she says N is farahead and also thatthere is nothing to worry about at this stage as long as they are making sounds and babbling. she also says talking in related to eating (same muscles) and I reember M wasnt into food til not longago so it could be on its way now... hope all is going well otherwise
Arte -what a dream!!!!!!!!!! glad you are feeling zen about the weight thing, deal withit when this bubba is here... i have ot say in all honsty though, i would do what the dr says, they have no bad intentions in tellng you and are there to look after your health... but i know easier said than done.. i hope that came out right...
Yes my job is already based in melb so that s abig relief for us... DH will take a leave of absence.. as i am the mainbread winner it makes sense we will move back to where my work is (not to mention family etc)
ok i have a heap of work to do will try to come back later

Well this morning was much better, she liked me.

MM - I still haven't had my dress drycleaned and it is 4 years. I looked around last year, but the first place wanted to charge $300+ without putting it in a special box and I almost fell over and wasn't brave enough to try anywhere else. Good luck with your MIL and the cake, hope you've given pretty strict instructions on what you want!

big girls beds won't be for a while here I don't think and was planning on TT next summer, unless she is really ready beforehand.

MD - good luck with the surgeon visit

K loves her dried fruit, but I do try and restrict it because of the sulfites. Might have to check out our health food shop and see if they have any. The owner has a son 3 days younger than K so they tend to have a lot of the baby stuff there.

We have a new sentence today - 'night night dad' (DH is on nightshift and he said that to him this morning when he came home and went to bed). It's not a big issue if they can't pronounce it spot on first go - there are age appropriate levels of speech, so some sounds will come later than others. There are so many different blends of sounds too that they just can't get it right all at once. So long as they are consistent in the 'words' that they do use for things, the correct articulation/pronunciation will come later.

Rainy:
I used to get along with my MIL .. until the last 7mths, rofl .. who has the elder son? you or the other lady?
He did say he wants to talk bout our future & did mention that he he lost sight of what is important & that mainly is our boys cause they are ours :doh:

Hayley:
Thanks :) Would be nice to put all this behind us & move on. But at the same time, I'm prepared to move on on my own. I even offered to move back to QLD to fix this but that's not something anyone else knows of.
My dress hasn't been cleaned yet either & its almost been 2years .. tho I can get away with calling it a formal dress cos basically, it is a fancy formal dress.

Till:
I'd like for him to take more responsibility for the boys. What makes it harder, prob for me, is that I grew up without knowing my father & still don't, & that hurt alot & I don't want the same for the boys. Can only w8 & see if he turns up & what happens.


~jack~ ..
this morning, I was getting Alex out of the car, & jack starts waving at me & says "bye bye" .. he knew he was at d/c! :rofl:
words: 'nite nite' 'alex' 'mum' 'pa' (for wispa) 'doo-doo' (doodle) 'bo' (boof, the dog) 'dink' 'yes' 'no' 'hello' 'bye bye' 'ose' (nose) 'uh oh' 'uck' (yuck, usually meaning poo's he see's)
& when alex does some he doesn't like or he does something wrong he goes "oooh" in stern voice

hello girls

arte- your dream cracked me up! what a ****a. i feel like i really could just about bend over and drop out a 6 month old baby right now. not sure it would have noah's hair though, have the feeling it might be another little blondie. ahahhh i am so ready to pop!
i still have a lot of period pain.

andie- i have the oldest boy. he has never gotten along with her though, so it's not like i've taken over their relationship iykwim? ...he's hated her for years before i came on the scene!
best of luck with xdh- i agree that the boys are both of yours and are very important xoxo

pap- what area of melb will you be moving back to? are you happy to be coming back? will you be going oobi crazy if you find out your bundle is pink?

lewis only really says 'dad' and 'mum'. he does understand a lot though.
he is driving me mad atm as he's worked out how to turn off the air-con and basically refuses to let me have it on. everytime i turn it on, he turns it off. it's happened about 15times already today and now i've given up and it's boiling.

quick question to all you wise women----would you let your dh go away from friday until sunday to a destination 3.5hours drive away when you are 37.5 weeks pregnant?

Rainy - Hmm thats a hard one. Personally I wouldnt let my DP go away, because I am just a panic merchant lol. Your MIL sounds like a piece of work if her own son hates her.

Andie - Sorry you dont know your dad, I can imagine how hard that must be. Of course you dont want that for your boys. If things dont work out hopefully you can come to some sort of custody agreement so that he has days where he spends time with them. However I'm really hoping it all works out for you and your ex hubby.

Trillian - Wow A sounds really clever with his talking. You must be proud! Yes I think you are right about my MIL, especially seeing as I've since spoken to a few family members who have brought up the incident that happened between us a few weeks back. Obviously she has gone & told everyone & yes she did make me out to be a real horrible person. Luckily I've been able to set the story straight with a few people.

Cally - See I think I will be like you & wont dryclean my dress after the wedding. Lol its a rip off it really is.

PAP - Yay you must be excited about your move back to Melbourne? How exciting! N will walk soon enough, sounds like he is too busy focusing on his language skills at the moment.

MD - Got my fingers & toes crossed, let us know how you go. Had to laugh at the boost smoothie incident, because M was the same. Her eyes lit up when she tasted the banana buzz smoothie!

Arte - I agree, get this pregnancy over & done with & then concentrate on whatever you need to do to get yourself healthy.

Went bridesmaid dress shopping today...what a mission. My sisters are too picky. Now why didnt we elope!? lol

MM- Tell them color you want and let them go pick it, and then you can ok their choice!

Rainy- I think you are very generous entertaining the idea! I didn't want DH going on a bux when i was 36 weeks last time incase he was too drunk to drive and missed all the action! He went though and it was fine. :rolleyes:

MD mentioned freeze dried fruit. I have found some freeze dried mango, banana and pear in my supermarket that is 100% fruit, nothing else added. Bellamys also do organic freeze dried apple and pear. Also some brands of sultanas and prunes on supermarket shelf have no nasties added. Just a few tips!

Making some pickles, and need to clean this place up a bit while DH is off with lulu training dogs! will bbl to try and catch up..................

Hi girls!

Rainy: No. i wouldn't let him go...simply cause when my DH did that my waters broke 3 hours later and he missed the dash to the hospital and only came in when i was well and truly in labour. it wasn't nice having him so far away at that time.
had to giggle about L turning off the aircon! leila turns the radio on full ball most days til my ears bleed and then boogeys like there is no tomorrow. i think unwittingly i am creating a dancer in the midst...arrrrghhhh i cant sew!!!!

MM: your MIL is sound pretty petty to me. i can understand that she wants to spend all her time with M (who wouldnt!), but you and DF are her parents and are raising her very well. and in a way it is romantic to share the honeymoon with her (just hire a hotel nanny for a romantic dinner!! ;) they are fantastic assests LOL!).

i agree with ange; i just told my bridesmaids the colours i liked and the general feel of the wedding (ie summer garden party in our case). it cut out some of the dramas and the girls looked beautiful and comfortable ITH.

PP: ooooooooohhhhhh coming to melbourne?!!!!!! that is so exciting!! we can soo hang out and buy oobi to our hearts content. in fact i bought a red-riding hood style bolero thing for leila today. too cute.
i hope the ulcer thing keeps quiet for you. and yay for the 20 week scan!! it gets so much more real from then i reckon...
glad robson is working for you!

Jordie: hi and welcome back!! ummm as for words...Leila says a few: mama, papa, stella (the dog), cheech (one of the cats), leila, uh oh (is that a word LOL!?), more, ciao, grazie, chi e' (who is it), wart (water LOL!), baby, dolly, mine (her personal fav LOL!), ta (thanks), da (give me in italian), tien (a shortened version of tieni which is for 'have this'). we arent too worried as a speech path told us that with her doing the two languages she's going to take awhile to do proper talking and words.
we are holding off on the toddler bed for now. she is sleeping in one at CC though without probs, but my sentiment ATM is, if it aint broke leave it well alone LOL!

AFM: well we just sweltered today. the wind here in melb has been soooo hot it was burning my skin. not to mention all the crud in the air. i have a dirt film across my chest...ewwwww. but it was all worth it as i was on an oobi mission (new store opened up down the road). ooops laptop about to run outta battery BBL xxx

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would you let your dh go away from friday until sunday to a destination 3.5hours drive away when you are 37.5 weeks pregnant?

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Technically NO! But I do seem to recall my DH being sent away for a similar length of time at 36.5 but that was kinda different, he didn't really have a say in the matter (due to the whole military prison factor).

MM - don't worry about what your MIL says, the truth has a way of coming out eventually.

PP I must've missed when you said you were going back to Melb?? Serves me right for speed-reading LOL - I bet you're so excited to be going home, it'll be a lot less flying for you!

Andi - sounds like you've got so much to get sorted out with your ex-DP! I hope things get easier and clearer as you go along. xxx

Ange which supermarket did you find the freeze-dried gear at? Was it in the regular dried fruit section or the health section or somewhere else?

Clare lol at creating a dancer, I suggest you get really familiar with sequins and rickrack LOL. Eww about the dust film - I can feel the blast of hot city air from here!

ok - saw Junior Dr Surgeon not Head Honcho man. Was very sympathetic and wanted to put me on the <30 day list but instead HH said <90 day list. But it seems like there's a loophole because he gave me very specific instructions about the next time I have a severe attack and go to casualty, I'm to tell them that I'm on the list and apparently a surgeon will come down and assess whether to whip me thru straight away. So if I suddenly disappear for a few days you will know I'm being gallbladdered LOL. Not enjoying the anticipation of the whole surgical experience tho.

Rainy .. I did it the other way .. let him go away when Jack was 4 wks .. tho if Jack was on time he wld have been 2wks. I was also trying to organise a nite out for my ex the wk b4 i was due for my c/s. I think it depends on how comfy you are with it.
I get that they are our boys .. wat got me was that he was making a point of stressing that to me, that's why they are so important .. cos they are his & mine, mine & his ...
I am thinking that cos he is the eldest, it might be why.

Hayley .. yeah .. just have to see what he has to say. cos he wanted to drive interstate trucks which means he wldn't have somewhere to have them, esp based in QLD.
I had my bridesmaid dresses made. My sis picked the design & the dressmaker made it work.

can only w8 ... grr, damn kid teething ... l8r

oh now if you disappear for a day MD i'm going to be so worried!

clare- ooh, i'm scared that's what's going to happen- that he'll go and then my waters will break. he's convinced that because lewis was 14days after edd, that nothing will happen.
where's this new oobi shop???

ange- i'll have to look for that frozen fruit. lewis is obsessed with ice blocks atm

Rainy don't be worried. It's a good thing to be gallbladdered. My goal is to be eating Haighs again by Easter LOL!

E is loving iceypoles. I buy the no colouring RugRats ones and she has half of one of those. I'm going to look out for the go-gurt tubes next time I'm down at the shops because they make ripper icey poles too. I've done frozen yoghurt in my tupperware moulds but it's a pain in the bum because the yoghurt is so gloppy. Oh and I was thinking I might peel, section and freeze some bananas too.

ETA just realised Rainy you are talking about Ange's freeze-dried fruit. It's not frozen, it's dried LOL.

ooops!! how stupid!
i'm going to look for those rugrats one now though LOL

gotta add all these things to my shopping list so i don't forget

mmm haighs....
i know it has to happen, but surgery still isn't nice xoxo

I got them at Safeway, which i think is woolworths in other states. With the dried fruit, but on the top shelf. Rainy i have seen them at lilydale.


MD- Good news the GB is on the way to getting sorted. Damn HH. Bet he's never had an attack.

No cussing the HH, Ange, he's still the best surgeon for miles and he's the one I want. BUT my GF paid to see him and apparently he has ZERO people skills. I'm not sure you can be a genius AND a normal person at the same time...?? LOL

Definately not. I have met many a Dr who will support that theory. lol Would have been nice if he put you on the most urgent list though!

hi girls!

Rainy: my shopping list is also expanding!! soo many new ideas! ahh what would i do without you guys LOL!

leila would probably still be eating rice cereal morning noon and tea...

Rainy - would depend on what event it is that he is going away for. Can you get your dad to come and stay to give you a hand with L over the weekend and as a 'just in case' person?

MD - shame you didn't get the good list. Good thing you got the tips though for the next attack. Mmmm, Haighs.....
So how do you do the frozen yogurt? Is it just straight yogurt in the tubs? DD and DH share the Quelch iceblocks (97% fruit juice I think). She does her happy dance when he asks if she wants to share an icy pole. Although I think her access might be curtailed as she has worked out how to bite it off - previously she was just sucking the juice out and leaving ice for DH!

MM - goodluck with the bridesmaids. I like the idea of just giving them a colour and you OK'ing it.

My parents are coming down today which will be nice for the weekend. Hope we don't have any more stinking hot days, otherwise I won't get Dad off the couch!

cally- i was going to go to my dad's house and stay there for the weekend while dh is away, as i feel like i really need a driver for if good times turn bad!

ange- haven't you noticed yet that i avoid lilydale? i'm more famous than j-lo in that town lol

got my eyebrows waxed today and i look like a million bucks...a very fat million but still a million. also had a quick massage and it was lovely.
to all of us who have been whinging lately- i highly recommend a bit of baby free time. i was only gone for about 3 hrs but it has done me the world of good. i feel totally refreshed.

Rainy - Isnt it funny how an eyebrow wax can make you feel so much better? I cringe when I look in the mirror lately because mine need a wax big time but waiting for the wedding. I so need some baby free time...wish my parents would stop being hippies & come home lol.

Cally - Enjoy your weekend with the parents.

Oz - So the sulphite in the boost bites, is it too high?

MD - Oooh I havent tried M on icy poles, might have to keep my eye open for them at the next shop. What a mean HH surgeon, I dont want you to have another attack before the surgery, but it would be nice for you to get in sooner. :(

Got an absolute bargain last night. Went down to see DP's aunty who works in a well known jewellery store. We got $750 worth of wedding bands for $180! Shows you how ridiculous the mark up on jewellery is....

Howdy

MM I have no idea if it is high. My motto is everything in moderation. I need to do some research though. Bargin on the jewelery, my sis used to manage a well known store its a shame I dont wear jewelery.

Rainy tough call, I think it would depend on how far away it is. Is he able to be in control of how many drinks he has just incase?

Cally I hope it isnt to hot for you this weekend, enjoy the time with your parents.

MD L loves frozen yoghurt and iceblocks too, we were making half puree fruit and half yougurt but like you say its very sloppy. We also freeze cubes of fresh squeezed juice and pop them in L's water for something different.

Well I have been busy packing for our camping trip, I cant get over how much stuff we need. Not to mention it is meant to rain tomorrow (still hot though) FANTASTIC....... NOT!!!

Katie, where are you going camping? Tamborine mountians would be nice. Isn't it amazing how much junk you need for a couple of nights! We had the entire tray of the ute crammed with stuff - but we did actually use all of it.

Rainy, I think the best way to prevent going overdue this time is to let your DH go away two weeks early lol Is it a drinking event? I think I would let DH go as long as he could stay driving sober in case anything started. I would like some baby free time, DH mentioned taking W out for a bit this weekend. They went to the trout center last weekend and had fun feeding fish but I was feeling too sick to appreciate the time. They were gone for a whole 4 hours - it is the longest DH has ever taken W out for by himself and he was quite proud.

MM, yay on the ring bargains! I hate knowing how much things are marked up by.

MD, good luck at getting de-gallbladdered sooner rather than later. How is your sister doing? If I recall correctly she 'came out' last year. I hope she is happy.

Cally, hope you have a good weekend with your parents

Clare, your FB pics of L are very cute. Hope all is going well at your house atm.

We are going to Kingscliff on the coast, just at Tweed. I dont think I have packed as much as the others.

Nice! Tweed heads was one of the nicest places we went to!

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