arte - you brought tears to my eyes as you really hit it on the head what i have been mother guilt thinking.. esp as N asked for me the whole time I was in Melb apparently and then ignored and rejected me when I got back. he wouldnt cuddle me all night and said 'No' when I came near him. and of course i wondered if the tantys were linked to all of this...
N's talking and comprehension is similar though prob slightly less than W. Though he knows the words to every song i sing and turns back pages if i miss anything in a book.he is def working out about the baby, i have read him a book 'there's a house inside my mummy' recently which he knows what is going on and now seems to get it about the baby more. i think bc i am so preg looking now too. he also mentions when the baby kicks him when i am holding him. he also points out any baby crying and says 'baby waaa waa, dudle (cuddle) mummy' and now he has conversations on the phone... it is amazing!! he also knows what is so embarrasing like pointing out EVERY bum he sees in public and also showing people 'my mummy boobies'. boys!!