Beatrix/Willow- DD1 was like that..exactly how you are describing!! I feel for you both!! I have discovered that there are a few things that bother Eleni that I eat.....

garlic
orange juice
onions
cabbage/coleslaw
chili (in large amounts, yes I like it)

apparently these are all classic foods that can irritate and give gas/wind! Maybe have a think about what you guys are eating...I have heard that a lot of dairy can have an effect as well..

With DD1 I had the same problems...and went the expressing option early on!! Then at 4 months I turned to formula!.... I can't believe I lasted THAT long with her... I was on struggle street bad!... Don't feel bad to go for formula! Your sanity is more important!!

I've been using sleeping bags with her for the last week and I have found she's sleeping MUCH better!... except the last few nights, she's been really unsettled at about 4am when she's decided is poo time!!

We had MCHN today for her 4 week check, she's 4.105kg!! up 600g in 2 weeks!! 52cm and hc 35.5cm! So she's growing well and we are happy with that!!.. At the moment she's in her bed getting cranky with her hiccups! poor little thing!