Hi BS - firstly thank you and don't worry, I had to scrimp and scrape to get her hair into piggytails, she has my horrible fine hair and hers is also curly at the bottom so it didn't provide me with much ha ha, I thought I'd give it a go for my mum as she was visiting from down south. Secondly, I LOVE the names Stella and Sofia (one of my fave perfumes is Stella (McCartney) and Sofia is another version of Sophie which is one of my fave names, sounds weird but one of my family pets was Sophie and I loved her so much so that name is special to me - she obviously passed away a while ago but still. My cousin just called her little girl Sophia and my friends who are Japanese (he has been living here since he was 10 so sounds as Aussie as me) called their 2nd girl Sophia. Who cares what others think, you'll never keep people happy, that's why we didn't tell anyone until she was born, I didn't want opinions!!!!

Good news girls - Amelia had 1.5 hours this arvo and she let DH put her to bed tonight - first in ages as she's been so clingy to me and she didn't cry, OMG I am feeling so good, I hope it lasts and she's back on track!