Welcome Liviam, looking forward to getting to know you and little ones!

Just wanted to have a bit of debrief. Ash has been having a lot of trouble going to sleep of late so I have decided to start doing the spaced soothing again. We just had so much trouble getting him down for his nap, I went in after 5 minutes and settled him, then ten, then ten again. Finally he went to sleep, but the poor little thing only slept for thirty minutes so I gave him a feed and he slept through that. I've just put him back to bed and am hoping he can sleep a bit longer. It's so hard to not pick him up, he settles very quickly when I come in but the minute I leave the grizzling/crying starts again, it just pulls at your heart strings. Like you Jetta I don't let him get really upset but I still feel so mean.